In all the words used above, ‘disguise’ and ‘performance’ got my
attention. I am not talking about using a mask for stage performances or to help
someone avoid an assailant. I mean the disguise and performance that have to do
with locking up who you really are so the world sees someone you feel they want
to see, the perfect man that receives accolades even when he cringes inside
with imperfection and pain.